The NursesPTO crew

Nurses intuition.

This post is more of a question to you, the readers, than it is a definitive statement.  My question is this: what is a nurse to do when there’s a conflict between her clinical suspicion and a doctor’s orders?

I vividly remember an incident that occurred on a surgical floor when I first started in practice.  A nurse I’d gotten to know (over shared cups of coffee while charting) was clearly distressed about something.  When I asked her what was wrong, she reluctantly relayed the following situation:

A patient had been admitted to the floor to a surgeon with a diagnosis of abdominal pain.  Read More

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Why we all need a financial planner.

I am the first person to admit that while I can cut into your chest and crossclamp your aorta within about 2 minutes, I cannot balance a checkbook.  I make a mean souffle, but my eyes cross whenever I try to enter even a month’s worth of expenditures into Quicken.  Since I plan on toddling into the nursing home in $800 Louboutin 5 inch heels, I had to admit my weaknesses and seek expert financial advice.

While my husband and I were still surgery residents, we first started visiting with a certified financial planner.  Now keep in mind that in our last year of training, our net worth was somewhere around negative $350,000 since our school loans/car payments/credit card debts far outweighed our meager assets which consisted of….. a lot of used scrubs and some drier lint.  To say I was skeptical about our need to see someone who might pee their pants looking at our bank statements….. you get the picture.

But it turns out that it was one of the best things we ever did.  They helped us set up accounts for important – future- life events such as a college fund (now funds with the addition of daughter #2), retirement planning, investment accounts and a debt paydown strategy which allowed us to eek away at the monster loans while still going out to dinner occasionally.  Now all of these accounts started out with only meager initial contributions, but those little seeds grew over time.  Granted, they got squashed like bugs on a windshield when the markets collapsed a year ago, but they’re now once again worth more than we’ve put in, which cushions us for the future.  And most financial planners charge little for initial consultations or offer them for free.

If I had stuck with my pitiful financial sense and my Scarlett O’Hara-esque sense of “tomorrow’s another day” then I’d likely be shuffling into SunnyShades Retirement on a pair of Payless bargain rack specials instead of plugged into some Jimmy Choos.  So let me please recommend seeking out a certified financial planner (the “certified” part is important – you don’t want somebody’s smelly aunt Franny who claims to be an expert, but got her “degree” from a Bazooka bubble gum wrapper) to help you set up a goal and devise strategies for getting there.  We chose a firm recommended to us by a friend with expertise in advising health care professionals because that was a good fit for us.

A good financial planner will fit your needs.  For those of you starting a new family, I recommend Vita Vie financial planning.  They specialize in helping young families plan their financial future.  I couldn’t say it any better than Kristin Harad, their founder, so check them out at their video link Certified financial planner.

Remember, it’s all about the shoes!

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“My mom is a nurse, she can fix anything”

I got the biggest compliment of my life the other day. My little boy who is 10, was playing with his neighborhood friend who crashed his bike. In they come, neighbor kid with a bloody knee and a nice case of road rash. My little boy looked at his friend and smiled then said “My mom is a nurse, she can fix anything.”  I giggled, knowing good and well I wish I could fix anything. We got the injured knee all washed, cleaned and bandaged and out the door they flew only to take on the days challenges that were left.

My little boy was so sincere when he was talking to his friend. It really made me stop and think how wonderful children are and how they look up to us for so many things. It by no means had to do with the fact that I’m a nurse he feels that way, he also feels that way about his dad who is a laborer. It’s the fact that he looks up to us all for guidance and has every ounce of confidence we as parents and step parents can “fix anything”. His dad has taught him so many things, the man literally can fix anything.

Even though we are divorced we are fortunate to have put are children first. I’m by no means saying we haven’t had our knock down drag outs, but we did the best we could.   We are both now with other people so my crew of 2 kids turned into 4. His crew of 2 turned into 5. Our children are so lucky to have step parents that love them like their own. Now being the proud mom/step mom of four, the laundry load has certainly increased but, I love every minute of it!

I know this has nothing officially to do with being a nurse but, I just wanted to share with you the biggest compliment of my life. Sometimes it’s nice just to slow down, take a look around and truly appreciate what God has bestowed upon you.

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When the patient is Houdini, it’s not my fault.

Most of us have been in the situation where things happen beyond our control. Well….when a patient gets the bright idea to rip out some tube or line or other very important and most often not easily reinserted piece of medical equipment….who gets the blame most often? NURSES. Now, I really do not find this to be fair. While we are the ones that are responsible for those that we care for, we cannot be at the patient’s bedside at all times. We have meds to gather, physicians to round with, charting to do, and yes every now and then we have to use the restroom or eat. Though I can say that there have been days I have not entered the bathroom door at work and I was lucky to shove in a bite or two of whatever happened to be lying on the break room table for lunch. Most of us have more than one patient as well which makes it impossible to watch each one at all times.

Anyway I say all of this because we as nurses get blamed for crazy patients pulling out their chest tubes, central lines, endotracheal tubes, and yes even ventriculostomy drains….NO nurse wants to make that call to the neurosurgeon and tell him such news. I have seen nurses in tears over this. I realize that taking a patient back to the OR on a Sunday afternoon is not fun, but it truly isn’t always OUR fault that these things happen. Most often it is that the patient is not sedated enough (per your orders), has Houdini powers and managed to wiggle out of restraints, or had been perfectly with it until they started seeing the bugs on the ceiling and decided to rip out that chest tube to use as a weapon….It really wasn’t my fault….I’m just sayin…

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Become a CNA, Then a Nurse

(This is guest post by Sandra Stevens, a Career Blogger. For more information on Certified nursing assistant Training you can visit her blog over at http://cnatraininghelp.com)

Have you been thinking about a career as a nurse?  Are you looking into nursing schools for your new career or to attend upon graduating from high school?  If so, you might want to consider training to become and working as a certified nursing assistant first.  You might even have noticed that some nursing schools require applicants to have the CNA Certification.

A CNA certification does not take long to obtain.  In fact, you can find many courses that only run for 3 to 6 weeks.  During that time you will have classroom instruction, demonstrations and clinical lessons.  You will learn to perform a variety of nursing assistant skills.  The duties of a CNA depend on the setting in which they work.

Nursing assistants often help to teach patients range of motion exercises.  A nursing assistant will take and record vital signs.  A CNA will help patients with their activities of daily living.  Nursing assistants are often asked to help bathe and groom patients.  A nursing aide can help patients to use the toilet or to change patients who are unable to use the restroom on their own.

If you decide that you want to or need CNA Training, you will want to find a nursing assistant training course that is fully accredited to provide you with the credentials you need to take the examination for certification.  You must attend your classes and make good grades on your exams to prepare for the certification exam.

When it comes time to take the certification exam, you will need to answer a series of multiple choice questions.  After that portion of the test, you will need to demonstrate nursing assistant skills to the person administering the examination.  Once you pass the exam, you will be eligible for your certification.

Consider working as a CNA for a few months before applying to enter into a nursing school.  This will give you time to work as part of the nursing team.  You will learn to provide kind and compassionate care for patients.  The time you work as a CNA will prepare you to move on to a career in nursing with more responsibilities and challenges.

Working as a CNA, will give you time to practice your bedside manner.  You will learn a great deal about how to work with patients who are scared and sick.  Of course, you will also learn how to work with and interact with other members of the healthcare team.  This will benefit you when the time comes to do your clinical rounds when you do attend nursing school.

It will be easier for you to gain acceptance to a nursing school if you have your nursing assistant certification.  In fact, you will find some schools for which this will be a requirement.  You will even find that some of your coursework in nursing school as a result of what you already learned during your training and work as a certified nursing assistant.

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Changing your name

When a girl gets married, it is expected that she will take her husband’s name. This may seem romantic to some, like ownership to others. The process though can be quite complicated. The level of complication has a lot to do with where you are in life at the time of your marriage. A young girl just out of high school maybe has to change her driver’s license and social security card and that is it. A woman that is older may have a bit more trouble.

My first marriage was right after high school and I had no problem changing my name…7 years later I was divorced and everything I had accomplished, college, nursing degree and license, certifications, maybe a few credit cards, numerous bills, my four children…well they were all attached to that name. I did not change my name back to my maiden name after divorce for that reason. Then 6 more years passed…and I was married again. I have been married about a month and a half…and still not everything is changed over to my new name. Every week I try to change my name with one of the various agencies that knows me. It has begun to seem like it will never end. I couldn’t change my name at work until my nursing license was changed….so I had to use my old name there, my new name on checks, my old name at school, and my new name somewhere else…it was confusing! Many times at work I signed a medication record with two different initials. I finally changed my name at work, but all my logins to the med pyxis and supply pyxis and computers all still use my old last name…yet another thing to change…

All the while, my new husband has no similar distress to worry about. His name is his name. Some women decide not to change their name with marriage and I think that is understandable, and some men are accepting of that. Though I do know of a woman that kept her ex husband’s name even after 20 years of marriage to someone else…I have already told my new husband that he cant have his name back! This is the last time I am changing my name….not just because I love him with all my heart and am so happy to be with him, but well….it is just too much trouble! ;)

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Are nursing unions necessary?

Are nursing unions really necessary? I am trying to look at this from all angles of medicine. The first point of view I am going to take is that of being a patient. I have been very fortunate in my times as a patient to be surrounded by amazing, educated and capable nurses. A good nurse is worth their weight in gold. Nurses are not only the number one patient advocates but, they are the eyes and ears of the physicians. Most of the nurses I have come across in the past 11 years are great but, there are those few that made me wonder how they kept their license but, they did lose their jobs. So, as a patient, does a union make it harder for hospitals/clinics/etc. to fire bad nurses? The reason I ask this is because I was married to a union guy. Read More

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